And that's because you had perfectly magical Christmases... without social media. It's something I'm constantly reminding myself as a mom of three. I have always been a "magical" kind of person. I love putting energy into things I care about; I love going above and beyond to make an already nice moment into something lovelier; I love being a Clark Griswold. But even I have my limits - and social media has truly made me feel inadequate as a magical parent.